Hey all u stoners...can i just start by saying how much I love this site but not as much as I love the members who make this site what it is..Seriously, u guys are the best...

Ok...secondly I need some major advice...I know I dont personally know any of u guys but I'm too embarrassed to ask people who know me because I feel like i've been such an idiot...So ok, now that I got that out the way, heres the story (dont fall asleep!)

About a year ago I met the perfect guy for me...A couple problems...He lives in the States and i'm here , hes been married and divorced (hes only 26). Well a few months after we met...I start getting messages from his ex wife.. who claims she is still married to him, they still live together and they are still sleeping together.

So I do what any normal girl would...Tell her to shut her mouth...confront him...and we break up for like 2 days. He says he's not still married to her, she got my number from his online telephone bill, he doesn't call her and shes just trying to get him to come back to her.

Well...I believed him...but i was still a little pissed at him as u all could understand. Anyways...we went on holiday together in the summer and I met his family and he met mine and we are planning to get married next summer and all was perfect. Before that he had given me his online messaging password so that I could text him from the internet to save money.

So I got this gut feeling in the summer and I went online to his account (i'm guessing he forgot he gave it to me cuz the next bit wouldn't have happened) I started going through his text messages that he's sent over the internet and I found 2 that he sent to her (I have her number from the previous calls she made to me) Saying how he misses her and cant wait to get back to do all these sordid things with her...I know..what an idiot right?

So anyways...he says he sent them when me and him had an argument and that hes sorry....he must have sent me around 200 texts that day I found out (he was back in the states by this time) And he was saying stuff like hes not giving up and that he loves me and that he wants to get married and have babies with me and all this crap. Anyways...im in the process of giving him a chance right...I still dont believe what he says so I hack into his online t-mobile telephone account (I overheard him give out his password on a call to his phone company) and find out hes been calling her up to 20 times a day.

I really have no clue what to do...I feel like an idiot but a part of me still believes him...I mean we are planning on getting married and moving to the states and all this. Can anyone give me some decent advice on what I should do..I mean I dont wanna tell him I logged onto his tmobile account cuz then i'll look really bad.

Ps: I love u all so please be nice

Pps: Sorry for the really long essay-style thread...I tried to make it easy to read for all u a lil sensitive at the eyes right now :thumbsup:

KottonMouthSara Reviewed by KottonMouthSara on . Ok..this is long but I need advice Hey all u stoners...can i just start by saying how much I love this site but not as much as I love the members who make this site what it is..Seriously, u guys are the best... Ok...secondly I need some major advice...I know I dont personally know any of u guys but I'm too embarrassed to ask people who know me because I feel like i've been such an idiot...So ok, now that I got that out the way, heres the story (dont fall asleep!) About a year ago I met the perfect guy for me...A couple Rating: 5