Um..I'm friends with her. She is very immature and even AFTER she found out she was pregnant she didn't grow much, she's still very immature.

She is 15 (she told me she was 17 I didn't find out until we were at the doctors office and she had to fill out the form and then she says, "Oh..I thought I told you that."

I am 17, graduated from school, working a full time job, helping around the house.

She is supposed to be looking for a job but apparently nobody will hire her. She is supposed to be going to school but apparently "it's too rough" for her.

Yes as long as my baby is healthy is all that matters, not like I'll love them any less.

I just feel bad about having a baby with an ugly woman, I mean I'm not shallow, I just don't really want to deal with her, and it's not a negative thought. MAYBE if she grew up something else could become but she's just plain nasty. She would have to change a lot about her. Start brushing her teeth, shaving her body, seeking mental help. etc etc.

I KNOW I am not ready for a baby and I told her we should think about adoption, she REFUSES, saying that she wants the baby for herself (even though she HAS no way to raise the kid on her own but I can understand that from a "I don't want to lose something that is my own blood" kind of theory.)

But still, adoption is the best. Giving the baby up for adoption will give that kid a better life than her or I could.

And HOPEFULLY I PRAY AND PRAY to whatever higher power there is that she is not raised by her or her mother (who is equally weird, outdated, dissociative qualities, and psychotic). I plan on taking her to court for custody if things don't change within the first two or three years. I even plan on moving the kid into my house, maybe she could move in, but there will be no relationship.

/blabbing