Quote Originally Posted by SensiRide
You both need to pull together despite your differences for the sake of your kid

Now I don't think staying together for the kids despite our differences is the best option.

I would rather have my kid(s) raised in an environment that is happy and there is less conflict. With her there is just conflict (when we are in a relationship). I still associate with her online and go to doctor visits with her, but that is where is stops. Sorry, but thanks for the advice, it's just..we've talked many times, we've broken up and gotten back together many times. This isn't meant to be and I am not going to post something that needs to be said for the sake if my kid ever reads this haha.

I currently have a g/f who has a kid (she's 22) and right now things are good. I see HER kid often and don't really raise him but I still play with him and a little active in his life. I don't feel the relationship was ever right.

Me and her (my ex) were together for 2 months. I met her the first day and started going out with her, didn't really know who she was. Found out who she was and didn't like it, didn't like it all. Tried to make things work, they just don't work.

No matter what, I'm here for the baby. Not her.

But I'm not going to say that because if I am paying for anything it's for my kid, not her, I won't pay child support to her because I know her habits and she'll blow it on "eyeliner and booze"