I'm sorry to hear about this and hope that you his wife can find peace in knowing that life can go on for you. This is very unfortunate but it is something that happens all of the time and it's just how you deal with it that is important. Please don't think that I'm downplaying his death, but we can't help him at this point, and someone in your situation could probably use some help. Please feel free to email me at any time at [email protected] if you'd like to talk about anything at all.