I found that there is a difference between sex and just banging. Me and my girlfriend took each others virginity. Needless to say, the sex sucked. I would simply just get on top and pound away. It was crap. Then I started to get into it.

I would give her a message, then I would talk dirty in her ear. Just enough to tease her. THen I'll slowly slide my fingers around the edge of her jeans just so my fingers touch her skin. I am very gentil. Just keep turning her on, but don't go to far. You'll know what to far is. Then at one point , she turns to me and will say, lets do this... .in a sexual way.

I start on top usually. I'll be very sexual, and won't go for the finish. We just sort of turn each other on till she can't take it any more and she'll like push me back, and she'll ride me till we both hit our climax. Make it hot, kiss her neck while having sex. Kiss her ear to, that gets my girl going at least. Make sure you seem like you are into it. If she sees taht you are enjoying it, she'll be more at ease. Get dirty to. If she has a shirt on while you are bangin or whatever, take it off during the sex and start making out with her neck. Make sure you are making love, not just bangin her.

p.s. I'm stoned right now, so hopefully this made some sense.