I can't give my female an orgasm. Both of my ex-females I could give an orgasm to by giving them oral sex. One said I was really good at it even. This one says she can't really feel it when I give her oral sex though, and doesn't really like me using my hands. She was pretty much new to everything sexual before me I believe.

She thinks she can have one if I we have sex really fast for quite a while, but if we're going really fast I'm likely to finish before she does. But, when we go slow I still finish before she does because she doesn't orgasm when I go slow. She can give herself an orgasm, but only in the bathtub by running water over herself.

I'm not quite sure what to do. It's a bit of an ego stab to be able to be pleased, but not be able to please equally. She says she doesn't need one, she says just the sex itself feels really good and stuff like that. But, I recognize those for what they are. Womanly "Don't let your ego crash and burn over this" type of remarks is all. She faked an orgasm around me once, I don't know why. Probably because she thought it would make me happy, but we talked about it and she admitted to it.

She likes having sex, and we have sex alot, but she never finishes, which is pretty bad on my part I think. We've only started being sexual alot in the past week or so, so I don't feel terrible yet. I just gotta figure this out, aka be able to give her an orgasm.

Advice? plx.thx.
ADaisyChain Reviewed by ADaisyChain on . Problems I can't give my female an orgasm. Both of my ex-females I could give an orgasm to by giving them oral sex. One said I was really good at it even. This one says she can't really feel it when I give her oral sex though, and doesn't really like me using my hands. She was pretty much new to everything sexual before me I believe. She thinks she can have one if I we have sex really fast for quite a while, but if we're going really fast I'm likely to finish before she does. But, when we go Rating: 5