Problems

[ADaisyChain]

I can't give my female an orgasm. Both of my ex-females I could give an orgasm to by giving them oral sex. One said I was really good at it even. This one says she can't really feel it when I give her oral sex though, and doesn't really like me using my hands. She was pretty much new to everything sexual before me I believe.

She thinks she can have one if I we have sex really fast for quite a while, but if we're going really fast I'm likely to finish before she does. But, when we go slow I still finish before she does because she doesn't orgasm when I go slow. She can give herself an orgasm, but only in the bathtub by running water over herself.

I'm not quite sure what to do. It's a bit of an ego stab to be able to be pleased, but not be able to please equally. She says she doesn't need one, she says just the sex itself feels really good and stuff like that. But, I recognize those for what they are. Womanly "Don't let your ego crash and burn over this" type of remarks is all. She faked an orgasm around me once, I don't know why. Probably because she thought it would make me happy, but we talked about it and she admitted to it.

She likes having sex, and we have sex alot, but she never finishes, which is pretty bad on my part I think. We've only started being sexual alot in the past week or so, so I don't feel terrible yet. I just gotta figure this out, aka be able to give her an orgasm.

Advice? plx.thx.

ADaisyChain Reviewed by ADaisyChain on 10-19-2005. Problems I can't give my female an orgasm. Both of my ex-females I could give an orgasm to by giving them oral sex. One said I was really good at it even. This one says she can't really feel it when I give her oral sex though, and doesn't really like me using my hands. She was pretty much new to everything sexual before me I believe. She thinks she can have one if I we have sex really fast for quite a while, but if we're going really fast I'm likely to finish before she does. But, when we go Rating: 5

[STDzRus]

Most females do not have a REAL orgasm for a majority of their life until they reach their peak which is about 3-5 years before they reach menopause.

Don't take it on your manhood. It's their fault they can't have an orgasm through penis or oral stimulation.

Try using a finger on her while your fucking her.

And sometimes an orgasm is more than just stimulating the clitoris. It can do with various other little things..like the way you treat her..the way you move around her body, the things you say to her and the speed and velocity of the sex. The position can also be a factor.

If all options don't work from any advice you achieve it is most likely that these girls are just not able to recieve an orgasm.

And don't forget, just because a girl cums does not mean she has orgasmed.

Guys though, they are different, each time they orgasm they ejaculate and vice versa. Even if there is nothing to shoot you still cum.

The female composure is a very versatile and touchy subject.

[Sinsemilla Jones]

She can give herself an orgasm, but only in the bathtub by running water over herself.

Or some female sex advisor somewhere once said that the running water on the clit thing can be intensively pleasurable, but can lead to insensitivity if over done.


So keep her away from running water for a while.


Sex usually gets better as we adjust to a new partner, and the adjustment can take a little longer for the sexually inexperienced. Orgasms had been something we gave ourselves by ourselves before any of us had sex, so sometimes letting someone else in on that can be tricky.

And just because you've finished, that doesn't mean you have to be done! The first girl I had regular sex with, if I finished before her, she would often ride my leg to climax. As a kid she masturbated by wrapping her legs around a clothesline pole and pressing her clit against it.

She also faked it during intercourse once or twice, which was pretty funny when she really did come.

[beachguy in thongs]

Guys though, they are different, each time they orgasm they ejaculate and vice versa. Even if there is nothing to shoot you still cum.

As a sex-machine, I have to disagree with this. After a certain amount of stimulation, all the blood rushes to your head and if you can hold it in (the cum) you can orgasm without cumming. Actually, you will still cum a little.

You will go, temporarily, limp and a load of pressure will be released from your hips. The contractions will start getting closer, however.

I don't suggest taking your penis out of the vagina to avert ejaculation. That just delays the inevitable.

[ilikerabbits]

TWAT

[ilikerabbits]

^^ i gnore that i was testing if there was a swear filter

[ilikerabbits]

lol never mind, dosent look like there is a swear filter.

[STDzRus]

As a sex-machine, I have to disagree with this. After a certain amount of stimulation, all the blood rushes to your head and if you can hold it in (the cum) you can orgasm without cumming. Actually, you will still cum a little.

You will go, temporarily, limp and a load of pressure will be released from your hips. The contractions will start getting closer, however.

I don't suggest taking your penis out of the vagina to avert ejaculation. That just delays the inevitable.

Your body is still processing an ejaculation though.

I hold mine back alot so I don't have to clean up. But every now and then it's good to clean the pipes out.

[beachguy in thongs]

Not really.

e·jac·u·la·tion (-jky-lshn)
n.
1.
a. The act of ejaculating.
b. An abrupt discharge of fluid.
c. The expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the penis during orgasm.
2. A sudden short exclamation, especially a brief pious utterance or prayer.

[mellow mood]

daisychain, first you can always use accesories u know. like dildo or whatever

try new things: ice can be a good thing too

anyway just be imaginative, and if u can continue to be hard after your first ejac, then continue (if u dont use condoms)

u can try to fuck her in the shower too, if water on her clit excite her

anyway i guess thats it. good luck