put your foot down in the beginning. if you don't, you're going to be living a double life...which sucks and takes up alot of time.... OR, you're going to be walking around with your tail between your legs while she's riding your ass about smoking pot. oh...btw, sounds like a good date to me. but there would definitely be alcohol involved. at least on my part anyhow. i'd be so shitfaced trying to carve pumpkins and end up in the ICU or some shit. anyhow, yeah...