Wow, dude, don't be hurt, be glad you found all this shit out, run like hell, and NEVER look back, I don't care how hot she is! She is not just some negative/depressed chick, she's a super whacko to put it mildly.

I started reading this thread thinking it was going to be an interesting, and somewhat enlightening thread about the differences between the male/female sexual thing, although somewhat redundant. Men like porn and look at other women, and it always hurts our feelings...when we are younger, that is. I was just going to tell Nancy to chill and wait till her 30s and 40s, then she'll be like a 17 year old guy, but she is so out there...so beyond jealous, so beyond "nosy" so beyond racist, just so beyond!!

With her attitudes and actions, in this day and age, I fear she will not make it to her 40s. Dude, there is no way you are going to change a girl like that, she's very sick. Pick yourself up, dust off, find someone worthy of you. Oh, and be honest about your likes, dislikes and exactly who you are up front so you find someone who fits with you. You will.

Peace.

Pudence