Yeah, calling you a jealous bitch was waayyy out of line, and he's an asshole for doing it (I'm not even going to address it...but no doubt, others on the board will). However, I'd like to throw my opinion on your last line:

"Even though he's not touching another pussy he still wants one. How should that be accepted by women?"

Just as a warning, but what I'm about to say will probably generate a lot of pissed off msgs from women. Anyway...

And I'll try and direct this towards Layman terms...here we go

Us men are not hardwired for monogamy. Our primitive mind is CONSTANTLY thinking about pussy, fantasizing about women, ect ect...we just naturally evolved to think like this ever since homo erectus got his ass kicked by Cro-Magnon (and probably even before that time lol).
Why? Well, from a reproduction point of view, it makes sense. Men can sleep around and get as many women pregnant as his urges determine (until an STD wipes him out, but I'm sure a man, unrestricted, could pump out a thousand offspring before that happens)...but women, on the other hand, can normally only have one kid at a time, so because of that, it makes sense that women evolved so that they would naturally try to find a mate who will stick around and provide for her (this is probably the main reason the idea of marriage was invented). Monogamy benefits women only.
I'm not saying that it is alright for a guy to cheat during a closed-relationship--and by cheating, I mean, fuck another living, breathing, woman; however, as so far as porn goes, guys are going to jack-off to fantasies even if they're in a relationship with last year's Miss America...we just can't fight it. It has nothing to do with our present girl-friend's attractiveness or how much we love them.
Now, the good thing about porn is that by jerking off to it, we release hormones that tell our brain "stop fucking...if you keep fucking, your balls are going to turn blue and fall off", and if we can't fuck anymore, we're less likely to run off with your less-than-attractive sister(s) lol...so I guess in conclusion, porn can be an aid for a healthy relationship just so long as it doesn't go BEYOND the pages/television screen and as long as the gf is a woman who understands what men have to go through.

There, I'm done...who's going to be the first woman on this board to attack me with their rhetoric? lol
Tilde Reviewed by Tilde on . question directed at women but men can respond Ok. I've been with my bf for over two years now. I went through this big depression and stuff. Normally I'm a very negative person. Usually I only see bad things in people, life, situations. And I'm sneaky. I usually just sit and think about how someone is fucking me over. Usually it turns out nothing is going on to begin with. The thing is I have mood swings. I thought i was happy until this afternoon. I saw on a message board that my bf had commented that this chick was hot. And then he made Rating: 5