ok all men watch porn or have at one time. i've known a lot of guys that say they don't like it. i think most of them are lying tho, haha. it is perfectly natural to watch porn. the bitch comment may have been out of line, but were you two fighting? what did you call him or have called him? sometimes things do get said. i know i've said some pretty vile things just because i was mad and wanted to hurt someone. of course i didn't mean it (at least not completely) and regretted it later. and the reading of his emails is kinda shady. not cool in the least. but hey, men brag to each other and love to comment on women. it's how they work. you knew he was into this stuff when you two got together. and now you want to change it. if you guys can't accept each other for who you are you're doomed.