If there was no time to know it was happening, there is nothing anyone could do before hand. I have the same feelings as Ousted, I have a husband, daughter, pets, friends, and family I care about deeply. If I knew it was coming I would want to be in the arms of my husband and kid and be surrounded by friends, family and my critters too.
Ousted's reply to this thread demanded my serious consideration of the subject and my final thought is; I dont want to think about it anymore.