it's gonna go down in person, only to my dad. i came close to telling my mom over the net when i was arguing with her over pot and alcohol (of the two, which would you prefer me doing? "i'd rather you drank because weed's illegal" they're both illegal for me! "well weed is more legal than alcohol) but i could tell from how the argument was going that if i told her she would totally flip so i'm gonna go with my dad