Quote Originally Posted by erceg
i had this done on my chest about 6 months ago,today was one of the worst days for a caregiver in the systym,my mom is being denied in home care because last week when they came over i was gone ,getting her meds,long story short,i have been emailing all i no,news agencys,7 on your side,i even contacted lance armstrong,s.ppl..the nurse that came over said i neglect my mom,this nurse i only see once in a blue moon,she tries to tell me how to do my job,anyway she filed a writ to social services,no worrys ppl,i have had this done before to me,the cops and social workers have been here last yr,another story,anyway anyone no any one who no,s someone important,i need to find why we are being treated like this by the sysytm,my mom needs to have her cathader changed it is clogged,the emergency room wont do it they say contact my dr,i did i have to wait till friday till she can be seen,i need laywers,i need advice from someone who no,s more than weed .this is a cry for help from me,if i wait that long she will more than likly develope a infection again,this is a cry for help,no bullshit remarks please,i am at my wits end trying to make it better for my mom!!!!who can i call that will help,who is out there that knows important ppl that can help,i dont have much money at all,but all help i get will be greatly felt ,thats it i will never again ask like i just did now,but i am only one person and i have to do what i do at my best now!!!!!,Thanks to all with all those kind words,,,,,Hempheadjack.ps if anyone has phone numbers of agencys that help cases like mine ,let me know please,i have tried to no avail,no return call backs atleast some words of comfort would be great from these places,even onh my end nothing at all no return call backs,
Howdy erceg,

I went straight to the top of the chain of command,and prayed for you and your mom..it's a start. The only thing I can think of,is that you need to contact a personal injury lawyer and explain how your mom needs immediate help and start threatening everyone with civil and criminal charges,if they don't help your mom,maybe a malpractice lawyer can help,and you can start with that dang nurse and the emergency room director,at the hospital you went to. Your mother's doctor,should at least call the hospital and order some help,if he can't do it..if not,then he needs to be talked to by a malpractice lawyer too.

Dang it-I know several nurses in my own family,that would help your mom with no expectation of being paid-they'd do it just because your mom needs help-not red-tape ! What in the hell is wrong with the doctors and nurses there ? Are they all heart-less,God-less liberals ?

I think that you should call her doctor back and tell them it's an emergency and that if they don't git her help right away,that you're gonna press criminal charges of reck-less endangerment and a civil malpractice lawsuit as well. Every doctor and nurse knows,that a clogged catheter,can lead to infection and renal failure.

I wish that I could help more ! It certainly sounds like y'all need a lawyer,to make the system work,otherwise, they ain't gonna take you very seriously.

I'm prayin for ya,Bro !

Have a good one ....