I meant to say she is not american.. No offense meant because I am AMERICAN.. I live in the USA and I love this country... I have dated many AMERICAN women... she is not AMERICAN.. she comes from a culture where family is important and a man is head of the household... and she is not AMERICANIZED per se, Not that we dont value those things... she just takes it to a different place... I love to be in control.. and she will let me..