Quote Originally Posted by w4terb0ng
ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.
I think its great that you want to make a responsible decision regarding this possible child. If I were you I wouldn't just make assumptions about her behavior, I would give her the opportunity to do right, and if she doesnt, then you can feel justified fighting for sole custody without visitation. Making assumptions could, in the courts eyes, make it come off like you have a personal agenda like wanting her out of the picture cuz you personally dont care for her, not that you're looking out for the best interest of the child. If your interests are completely 100% about your childs best interests (a good way to make that point would be offering an agreement for her to have visitation rights because you recognize how important of a role a child's mother is) then custody might lean in your favor...and if she is someone who might make an ass out of herself with defensiveness, dysfunctional personality, abrasiveness, or whatever, if you stay composed and maintain your dignity, you wont have to utter one negative word about her. If she's really as bad as you say...they'll know it, you wont have to say it. No amount of words, examples or passion on the subject will change a judge's impression he gets from the person themself. So to make her have the worst impression, you need to give the best impression of character and dignity you can possibly muster. That alone may eat at her and she may blow up right in the court just because of that, because she might have expected you to be nasty and fight on her level...its much more annoying (when you want to be right, that is) when someone is composed, then when they are running their mouth off trying to be right, too.

Anyway, much luck with it all, keep us posted! Hey, maybe she wont even be pregnant, and all this worry was for nothing...except maybe a good lesson in safe sex.
Ousted Reviewed by Ousted on . Quite possibly my biggest mistake EVER! yeah, so anyhow.... i got trashed and screwed this ugly chick a few weeks ago. now she calls me today and tells me that she's late on her period. OOPS! so now, i may be totally fucked. AAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! i already have 2 kids and don't need anymore. i'm just another statistic now. just another jerry springer episode. sheesh. how my life sucks this terribly, i'll never know. ah well...peace! Rating: 5