Quite possibly my biggest mistake EVER!

[ScarlettCrush]

you are an adult having unprotected sex with someone you don't know or like or are attracted too....
why did you have sex with someone you where not attracted too in any way?
why did you have unprotected sex?
...I will never understand men...

So you just used this chick for sex when you where wasted, didn't talk to her about birth control, didn't track down the morning after pill or even care about her well being until you heard she was late and now you are mad at her?
You mad at the wrong person.

you know you where taught better- I hope this comes out ok for ya'll

[Ousted]

So you just used this chick for sex when you where wasted, didn't talk to her about birth control, didn't track down the morning after pill or even care about her well being until you heard she was late and now you are mad at her?
You mad at the wrong person.

Amen!

[Nochowderforyou]

you are an adult having unprotected sex with someone you don't know or like or are attracted too....
why did you have sex with someone you where not attracted too in any way?
why did you have unprotected sex?
...I will never understand men...

Saying that pisses me off.

What about women? They never have unprotected sex? I know some girls I went to school with way back when. Lets see, 1 of them gave up custody of their daughter, unknown father.

Another one has 3 kids now, all unknown fathers, all different fathers.

And, the other one I knew personally (not THAT personal). She had a baby boy named Jacob 4yrs ago now. She tried killing herself, now dad has custody. She now has a baby girl and is now pregnant with another...2 unkown fathers, 3 kids, all seperate dads.

So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.

[Ousted]

Saying that pisses me off.

What about women? They never have unprotected sex?

Of course they do, but if men dont take the extra step to be careful either, then surprise, she's pregnant, and like fools men claim that they were tricked or are being trapped by a woman, its fucking laughable men's ego's sometimes.

So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.

Sure are, and dont assume otherwise, wear a rubber.

[ScarlettCrush]

everyone makes mistakes, but stuff like this past the age of 22 is just ridiculous.

I don't get why chick would have unprotected sex with someone who was hammered that she barely knew. Something is going on there, so if you must be with a chick like this know that she already has questionable judgement. This is why you talk about birth control, and if you're too wasted to talk about it before hand you should talk about it the next day and if there isn't any, then the little morning after pill will cost ya about $30. You get it, you say goodbye, you get tested for std's and you staple a little note to your cock that says "NEVER AGAIN WILL I LET YOU LEAD ME INTO THE VALLY OF FAT CHICKS, PREGNANCY, THE UNWASHED, BAD LAYS AND STD'S. YOU HAVE BUT ONE EYE AND CANNOT SEE THE WHOLE PICTURE"

My ex roommate would tell guys she couldn't have kids, but that was a lie. She took pregnancy tests all the time and would lie about having miscarraiges and shit just to get the attention of guys like this who didn't really like her but fucked her anyway.

[w4terb0ng]

ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.

[Ousted]

ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.

I think its great that you want to make a responsible decision regarding this possible child. If I were you I wouldn't just make assumptions about her behavior, I would give her the opportunity to do right, and if she doesnt, then you can feel justified fighting for sole custody without visitation. Making assumptions could, in the courts eyes, make it come off like you have a personal agenda like wanting her out of the picture cuz you personally dont care for her, not that you're looking out for the best interest of the child. If your interests are completely 100% about your childs best interests (a good way to make that point would be offering an agreement for her to have visitation rights because you recognize how important of a role a child's mother is) then custody might lean in your favor...and if she is someone who might make an ass out of herself with defensiveness, dysfunctional personality, abrasiveness, or whatever, if you stay composed and maintain your dignity, you wont have to utter one negative word about her. If she's really as bad as you say...they'll know it, you wont have to say it. No amount of words, examples or passion on the subject will change a judge's impression he gets from the person themself. So to make her have the worst impression, you need to give the best impression of character and dignity you can possibly muster. That alone may eat at her and she may blow up right in the court just because of that, because she might have expected you to be nasty and fight on her level...its much more annoying (when you want to be right, that is) when someone is composed, then when they are running their mouth off trying to be right, too.

Anyway, much luck with it all, keep us posted! Hey, maybe she wont even be pregnant, and all this worry was for nothing...except maybe a good lesson in safe sex.

[w4terb0ng]

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[w4terb0ng]

ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLRIG HT. no babies being made. i am fortunate enough that it turns out this chick wasn't pregnant. WHEWWWWW!! LESSON LEARNED. now it's time to smoke a fatty. thanks for your input everyone ... good or bad.

[Melton420]

you fucking psyco