um. IMO she was ugly. i have spoken my opinion as i have the right to do. given that maybe i shouldn't have included my opinion with the rest of the story..... i did, and i can't change that now. BUT, if you'll take a look, i DID stop calling her fat and ugly and just stuck to the heart of the matter after first posting. anyhow, it's all over with now anyway. she's not pregnant, i don't have to see her anymore, no babies... i HAVE learned a valuable lesson though, so i guess that's what counts here.... not the fact that you or anyone else has a problem with ME calling someone fat. as far as i can see, the rest of you jumping down my throat for calling somenoe fat or ugly is just as judgemental as you are claiming me to be. no hard feelings though. i'm just happy. moving on.............................................