Quite possibly my biggest mistake EVER!

[Torog]

I NEVER said anything about even considering an abortion. I DO NOT, and will not EVER support abortions. Which is why I find myself in such a hard place. SECONDLY, the two children that I already have were NOT mistakes. Yes, I was married when I had those children, and yes, I DO support those children. As a matter of fact, they are here with me right now and I love them more than anything else on this planet. I realize what a stupid thing I have done and what the consequences might very well be. Don't take me the wrong way. I am not someone who just goes around making babies and not taking responsibility for my actions. I was basically putting my story up here to share, so that maybe other people could see what happens when you DON'T act responsibly. Yes, I had a few harsh things to say about the situation, but I'm only still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do about it. ALSO, just so you know, I would NEVER EVER EVER be out drinking and driving. (that was for the comment on killing an innocent family while out getting trashed)

Torog, I totally understand your comment, and have nothing to make an arguement about. I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place now, and it's all my fault. Well, I hope you guys learned something here.

Howdy w4,

Well thanx for setting things straight,you are to be commended for having the courage to come forward and admitting yer mistake..good for you sir.

Also,you are correct to point out-that drinking and driving is a horrible thing to do,and it can't be said-often enough.

As for a practical solution to yer dilema,you need to establish paternity..and then go from there,if you are indeed the father,I'm confident that you will do the right thing. There's a price to pay,for all of our actions that result in a bad situation,accept that fact and then work on what will be best for your child..why should a child be made to suffer the sins of the father and mother ? The child is innocent....

If I were in yer shoes,I'd seek to gain full custody of the child,so that he/she,will have a good and loving father,who will place their needs and wants,above their own wants and needs,that you treasure yer children,is great and wonderful. I don't know if yer a person of Faith,if you are,ask God for help and to that end,I will pray for God's help in this matter too.

I believe that you have learned yer lesson..hold yer head high-you could be a father again ! Children are a blessing and a miraculous gift from God,rejoice in that and work towards a good future for your child and yer other children.

Have a good one !

[highjinx]

haha thats it t3chyo think positive!

[Ousted]

Omg, ousted that was the greatest thing!!!!!!!! I agree 100% with everything you said!! Are u a guy or girl? Either way u r really intelligent

Wow, thanks, that certainly made me feel good. And Im a girl.

[theprettiestprincess]

Darn, I was gonna ask u to marry me jk

[beachguy in thongs]

lesbianism at it's finest...

[DazedandConfused]

haha

[420purplehaze420]

theres only one aoluion to your problems friend.....FLEE THE COUNTRY

[Torog]

Howdy Y'all,

I would like to point out,like likemclever said,that w4 and others,have said hateful things about the gal in question,appearance. Making fun or light of,other folk's appearance,is a very immature thing to do..But for the Grace of God...there go I.

The physical shell of a person,is not what folks should be judged by,if they are to be judged at all..but rather,the content of their characters and the soul inside the shell. Shame on those who judge by appearance alone ! Shame on me-when I slip and do it at times !

Have a good one ...

[ladyM]

WTF! Ever hear of condoms? Youre fucked if she doesnt want an abortion and since you are the male, not man or it wouldnt have happened in the first place, you have no say in the matter. Damn, everybody knows ugly chicks look better when youre fucked up! If its not a decent steady piece, stay away from it. Now you need to start on a testing regimin, you never know what you'll catch. Your dick might not explode on entry, but it might 6 mo. from now.

[beachguy in thongs]

WTF! Ever hear of condoms? Youre fucked if she male, have no say in the matter. Damn, everybody knows ugly chicks! If decent steady piece, stay away from it. Now you need to start on a testing regimin, you never know what you'll catch. Your dick might explode on entry, but 6 mo. from now.

I'm sorry, Mrs. LadyM, this had too many sexual references in it.

I'm blind. Still.

Awwwwwwwww, I meant to post that in the funny quotes thread, so Robert can see it.