Quite possibly my biggest mistake EVER!

[CGB1013]

what is so hard about using a rubber, I don't get it

[buddymyfriend]

You`re the dumb ass that had intercourse with her WITHOUT using protection.
you weren`t raped by her
so get some balls and take responsability
if she`s as promiscuous as you claim,
i`d be rushing to the clinic to get tested for STD`s
and
you call her a skank, well she fucked you didnt she

Well said!

[w4terb0ng]

Howdy w4,

Such are the wages of Sin...and promiscuity....

Don't compound yer sins,by murdering yer unborn son or daughter,remember,yer unborn child,is innocent !

Are you married and have 2 children..or have you simply fathered 2 children ?

Do you support yer other 2 children ?

Do you think that it makes you more of a man-to go around and father children,without being tied to their mother/s legally ?

I am praying that God will spare the innocent child and that you will stop being so irresponsible..be mindful of the consequences of gittin 'trashed'..it could have been worse,you could have killed an entire innocent family..while you were out gittin trashed. Why should anyone have to die..because you thought that gittin trashed..was a good idea ?

Have a good one ...

I NEVER said anything about even considering an abortion. I DO NOT, and will not EVER support abortions. Which is why I find myself in such a hard place. SECONDLY, the two children that I already have were NOT mistakes. Yes, I was married when I had those children, and yes, I DO support those children. As a matter of fact, they are here with me right now and I love them more than anything else on this planet. I realize what a stupid thing I have done and what the consequences might very well be. Don't take me the wrong way. I am not someone who just goes around making babies and not taking responsibility for my actions. I was basically putting my story up here to share, so that maybe other people could see what happens when you DON'T act responsibly. Yes, I had a few harsh things to say about the situation, but I'm only still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do about it. ALSO, just so you know, I would NEVER EVER EVER be out drinking and driving. (that was for the comment on killing an innocent family while out getting trashed)

Torog, I totally understand your comment, and have nothing to make an arguement about. I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place now, and it's all my fault. Well, I hope you guys learned something here.

[Void]

Adoption.(SP?)

[weirdo79]

Wow so many people actually assume she's telling the truth....she's less than what about a week late, a completely normal biological occurence. Id honestly just say to her "Ok , 1. prove its mine(demand DNA before you'll help out if its even true), 2. Prove your actually even late".....Sorry I've dated psycho's (thankfully not fat and ugly ) , and they try this trick all the friggin time. Entrapment of a man so that you can control him (they usually believe this is the only way they can control and keep a man and usually because of their behaviours it is....).

Id seriously tell her to fuck off until she's showing if you despise her so much. With all due respect to her and yourself you have no legal obligation to anyone for just having sex with them (the pregnancy has to be proven ladies sorry your word isnt enough too many crazies out there, you should test us too before you commit to our crazy asses ! ,the courts recognize this and so should you )


Oh and Torog its nice to see your particular brand of fundamentalism crop up makes me smile mah man . Mostly smiling AT not with but I love ya all the same.

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

men!!! carry rubbers and prevent this

[bluntman3000]

jsut think about the childs sake.....it would be the right thing to have an abortion because the child is not goin to want parents who hate each other....and never see there dad or mom.....also by having this child u would probely jsut fuck up its life...so it might not be better to bring the child into he world at all.....if she is even pregnant......or if u say this girl is as bad as see says i wouldnt want here to be part of its life so u could take care of the child yuorself tho i doubt se would let that happen.

[w4terb0ng]

if i had the option of just taking the child myself, and never having to see her face again.... then yes, i'd probably do that. my only other option would be adoption. i will not be responsible for murdering a child. i couldn't live the rest of my life and sleep at night if i did that. i'll just wait it out and see what comes out of it. if she really IS pregnant... then i'll start worrying.

[Completely Stoned]

this thread made me fuckign laugh my ass off. Especially-->

fuck that. deny deny deny

you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.

or

just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support

haha =P

-sdffa11 (holy shit that was funny)

[Ousted]

this thread made me fuckign laugh my ass off. Especially-->

fuck that. deny deny deny

you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.

or

just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support

haha =P

-sdffa11 (holy shit that was funny)

Apprarently you have never witnessed the many many fools who appear on Maury's paternity shows who follow the same logic you do.

The act doesn't fool anyone except maybe yourself. And when people are defensive, it makes their intelligence come off to others as extremely low, even if they are highly intelligent beings. Being defensive or "deny deny deny" is probably the worst advice you could give or take, IMO. Unless your dignity isnt of much value to you.


Listen, whats done is done. Im sure she doesn't feel much better about the situation, if you look at it from her point of view. A possible pregnancy from a man who is divorced, already fathered 2 children and views her as a fat ugly bitch? Sorry to be harsh, but I think you need it: It doesn't sound like she baited much of a fish either, and if she's smart, she would hope she isnt pregnant by someone who is so blatenetly disrespectful of others, and someone who lacks self-respect because he will screw those he finds repulsive in altered states.

I would check your attitude. If she is pregnant, and its yours, viewing her as you do will only make the situation for YOU much much worse. I understand you may be being unkind as a way of coping with a very stressful situation, but fuck, be a man with some dignity. You're not some 15 year old punk, dont act like one. Own your mistakes, and if you do view her as the nastiest bitch who ever roamed the land, then keep it to yourself. You gain NOTHING saying such nasty things out loud, and you lose respect of those who hear it (whether they agree or not) and you'll lose respect for yourself, because only people who lack character behave in such a childish way.

If she's pregnant and its yours, wouldnt you be happier with yourself knowing that you said from the beginning "I'll do what a man is supposed to do" while maintaining your self-respect and dignity during this stressful time? Cuz the end result may be the same (pregnancy, and its yours) whether you throw a tantrum like some little punk, kicking and screaming, cursing the heffer who mothered your child to hell, and/or resenting the child because of its mother. None of those behaviors says "man" to me. And I would bet you'd rather be a man than some defensive, unkind, bratty piece of shit person who likes to think of himself as a man, without bothering being action-oriented to be one.