Everything in the bedroom is based on trust. Some people don't even know how to talk about sex, so that makes it impossible to set limits and then sex is bland.
I used to be such a prude. Wouldn't even do it doggy style, with lights on, give head cause I was affraid of cum. Ha. Now my husband's married to a freek in training. Once you can talk aboiut sex, set limits, you can have all the fun you want. Once I was able to tell my husband (boyfriend back then) that I didn't want him to cum in my mouth, I could give him one hell of a blow job and he could do what ever he wanted with myhead. I am now trying to get passed the cum thing. I grew up (for some reason) being ashamed of having fun in the bedroom. I am now proud to say i am a very well poised woman in public (the kind you can bring home to momma) I make most of our home and family decisions, but in the bedroom I like him to be in total control. He owns me in the bedroom and I luv it. It is refreshing for someone like me. There is nothing like Spankin, hair-pullin, deep, hard sex at the end of day after trying to be the perfect mom to two kids.