well, stew, there is another way you can gauge her readiness... pick off a nice big bud... put it in an envelope... and mail it to me... I will then exam it thouroughly...

A real professional exam!!!!!!!!!

and then I will mail you back a report on my findings along with the remaining ashes that will probably be left after such a thourough exam..

its up to you.. no pressure..

HD - back off dude : ), I got this one....