dont ever even THINK of not bringing the bud...its there in hard times, and will be now also...dont pull it out until he initiates...tell him you know he smokes bud...and if he acts like its terrible for you to smoke, just toke up when hes not there...

thats what i do...my dad doesnt mind that i smoke, but he doesnt want me to disrespect him either...so we drink together, and then i smoke when he goes to sleep...