This is totally up to you, Sara.

Do you think you can live with him, forever, down there?

If you break up, what would you do? You probably won't have too much of a social life, after developing a relationship with him and moving to a strange city (la villa strangiato). Then you'd be scared. I'd just give up, if I were you.

Really, how much you like this guy should be the basis of your decision. Do you want to marry him? That's what it'd be like if both of you are transported to Jacksonville. I'm just looking at this from my (ex) girlfriend's perspective.