As much as I found it hard to follow the flow of your post, I think I understand the sentiment. People like to categorising everything around them to make it easier to swallow; a dead animal becomes meat; people in Iraq fighting for their cause become insurgents or terrorists; pot smokers aren't just people trying to enjoy themselves, they're druggies or criminals... Everything is so much easier in black and white.

Sorry i'm not making much sense.. it's been another long sleepless night. +lol+