SneakAToke,
Don't listen to the "Moral Police"!! You are doing what is best for your family and if that means that you need your kid to be a donor, then so be it! Burnt Toast is correct by saying that the integrity can be affected but I am sure you are not the first or last person to make this mistake. Try and think positive. I am sure you will be ok. Please let us know the results. That is the only way that we learn. Thanks and good luck to you!!!!