Why do so many ppl assume I'm a dude?

[soHi]

You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!

soHi Reviewed by soHi on 10-01-2005. Why do so many ppl assume I'm a dude? Almost every time someone responds to something I say, positive or negative, they assume I'm a man. I don't know if my username is manly or something, but just so y'all know... I'm a girl :) . Oh yeah, and also, I think I'm comfortable enough here to be on a first name basis with people. So, my name's Sarah. Rating: 5

[ilikerabbits]

You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!

lol, you said breast, instead of best, lol.

[robert42]

u mean ur not....

[BUZz UK]

Almost every time someone responds to something I say, positive or negative, they assume I'm a man. I don't know if my username is manly or something, but just so y'all know... I'm a girl

I'm gonna need some proof here...

[beachguy in thongs]

Hell, as a second-generation hippie, I'll call anybody "man", regardless of gender. You know what I mean, man?

I don't get it, man.

[beachguy in thongs]

A Dude is really a derogatory term it means: an ingrown butt hair. It can also mean that you dont fully trust someone, or a term for somebody who is a scammer.

Awesome.

[beachguy in thongs]

You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!

Originally Posted by soHi
You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!

ilikerabbits Quote:
lol, you said breast, instead of best, lol.

my quote:
LOL. A Freudian slip, how did he pull it off?

[Breukelen advocaat]

A Dude is really a derogatory term it means: an ingrown butt hair. It can also mean that you dont fully trust someone, or a term for somebody who is a scammer.

The first time I ever heard the word used extensively was in the term "dude ranch", many years ago.

In the movie "The Man Who Shot Liberty Valence" (1962), Lee Marvin, as the Western outlaw Valence, uses "dudeâ?� as a put-down of Jimmy Stewart, who is from the East:

Jimmy Stewart: "What kind of men are you??"
Lee Marvin: "This kind, dude."
Valence hits him
Marvin: "Now, what kind of man are you, dude?"

I saw this movie when it came out. If I remember correctly, we saw it in a drive-in. It's on TV once in a while, and John Wayne is also in it.


"Dude" stated being used in New York in the late 60's in a similar meaning as the usage by the California surfers who adapted the word. Now it can refer to women, also.

I have never yet heard the word used in any references that you have named. I guess it depends on where you live.

[poorman3]

where in NC?

Sorry I missed your reply. I`m south of greensboro 1 hour.

[StarcommanderX]

hey sarah. how about you and me going back to my place. so you can wash my dirty clothes.