Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
this does not apply to all people. people that blame their own problems/bad behaviors on other stuff, such as peer pressure or 'they couldn't stop theirselves' are only fooling themselves..
I agree they are only fooling themselves. Most people have to in order to live with themselves.

everyone is in control of their own actions, maybe they can't control their thoughts, maybe they even feel the need to kill...but in the end they are responsible for making the decision to do such a thing.
True. But people dont like to think they are wrong or evil. They might mature enough to become accountable, but if they do mature enough to be accountable, then they will have maturity to not behave the way they have previously. Until that enlightenment strikes (which in most cases it does not), understand they will not believe themselves to be bad people, really.

and imo people who try to find excuses or other faults that lead them down the passage they chose are worthless moronic pussies.
Oh, I absolutely agree. But you or I telling them that isn't going to help you, me or them any. People are naturally defensive, and if you aren't for the person and show you understand him (not that you agree or think he's right or anything, just understand), then you're against him, and he will in turn be against you. This lady was smart enough to know that.