I try not to judge people, even the trendy ones. I don't care if I am judging wrongly or not, because often your first instinct is the right one. I met this man recently who I totally fell for, but he lives in another state. I was talking to a girl who works at the coffee shop about him and she KNEW who I was talking about, just from serving him coffee. She was like, "Oh that hot guy with the blue eyes?" It actually kinda sucks, because I thought that maybe I just thought he was hot because I love his personality. But if other chics totally dig him some bitch might snatch him up and I won't ever see him again. Anyways I guess what I am saying is stop deciding who you like based on what they look like, if you look in their eyes and you can't take your gaze away I say thats a real thing and go for it.