Most people suck in general, male and female. I think the key is to finding a good relationship is finding someone whose foibles you can tolerate and and who can tolerate yours.

Women say all the time that guys are dicks, but that's just because the majority of girls are attracted to assholes. I have found that if you want a girl to like you, you have to act like a pomous asshole at first. You have to have a lot of confidence and carry yourself like you're the hottest shit in the septic tank, or else you get ignored.

I think a major problem is that girls will not accept you as you are, at least not at first. You have to go through a big charade of saying things that she wants to hear and doing things you wouldn't normally do to please her, just so that the girl will give you a chance to get to know her. Then she's suprised that you are a different person a month later and she wants you to change a bunch of stuff.

So, i've given up trying. I am a totally complete person without another half. I don't need someone to complete me. I stopped trying to be in a relationship with anyone and just started living according to my own plan. If someone comes along, that's fine. If not, that's fine too.

I found that most of the good relationships come when you aren't looking. Because that way you don't allow the things that normally cloud your judgement about a person aren't there. Because you aren't actually considering anyone, you don't have that "she has a nice ass" or "he has a lot of money" crap getting in the way of getting to know people. Then good relationships can grow out of sincere friendships. anyway, that's more than my two cents.