Your problem is that you're looking at guys... go look for a man.

I'm not trying to put you down or anything, just my thoughts. I'm a man, with a girlfriend... I'm really happy... couldn't be happier (well, ok, when my plants flower). I keep my woman happy. Communication is key.

You know, you're saying that all guys are dicks: Question::: What guys are you giving a chance to? If you're giving a chance to the popular, good dressed, perfumed, buttwipe, well, that's your problem. Look for the guy that isn't the center of attention. He'll be more interesting... I bet you 5 bucks.

As to your giving 'good head': GREAT! The more, the merrier. But that's another thing I'm thinking::: How early in the relationship do you blow him? Same night? Problem.

Not that there's anything wrong with fucking the first night... but it's pretty hard to go from "first time fuck" to "making love". If a relationship will work out, it's probably "making love" first, then "fucking".

At any event, I wish you the best of luck

-turtle420

PS: Try eHarmony.com I haven't tried them, but they sure have a lot of commercials flying on TV.