My fiance describes the same thing for the vast majority (in fact all) of her past relationships. If there being a dick drop em like you would roadkill. There are plenty of guys who love the things you do are attractive and not a dick . Problem is finding em .

If your aggressive they're probably intimidated you just gotta find a guy like myself who likes an aggressive lady. . The most popular fantasy is still domination for males so id say your pretty well off you just gotta communicate and make them feel safe (us guys are notoriously close minded sexually and for lack of a better term "anal" when its not just us alone with our fantasies, fear of being laughed at etc etc...that can really hurt a guy who by societies rules are told were really only extensions of our ego's).

Hope you find someone nice soon but never give up probability is on your side .