likemclever makes a good point.
most people don't understand the seriousness of having sex - fourteen years old or twenty-one years old.
i believe, and not because i'm a virgin, that sex should be had with someone you love and care for. love, though not understood by anyone, takes time. so, for me to have sex it would have to be with a woman that i feel i can share the rest of my life with, although hormones do inspire me to get experience beforehand. i still think that the woman that ends up with me will surely understand and be more than happy to experience me in the ways of having sex. i'm a hopeless romantic.
i'm willing to wait, and if your a virgin you should be able to. i mean, you don't even know what your missing, so how can you want it so bad?