OK here's the scoop on this ass thing. You get your man really turned on with the very excellent blow job that includes hand play on his cock. Then you get the lube, warm it up in your hand, satrt rubbing his cock and that spot between his legs in front of his ass while you blow him. Go down deep and at the same time you rub that hardspot behind his cock. Ask him if you can rub his ass on the outside and when he can't hardly stand any more, throw his legs up over his head and put uour tongue in his butt very gently when he comes. Next time you can put your little finger in his butt and massage the tight muscle at the entrance to muscle of his ass. My man was very no-no about his butt but when i gave him the best orgasm he ever had with this method, he will now, when very turned on and well lubed up, enjoy a really intense and deep orgasm this way.