Quote Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat
Are you are in control of this situation? If this is a type of foreplay, or "role-playing" routine, that's fine. If your boyfriend is really out to hurt you, out of anger, then you have a problem. The same thing goes for the "disrespect". There is nothing wrong with incorporating these games into lovemaking, as long as you both understand that it's just a form of foreplay.
I like him to act like that to me all the time, but he wont. Sometimes hes quite the opposite, very romantic. But I still think of myself as inferior to him and would prefer him to be mean to me. I worship him.