Women & men use kissing as a gauge to see what type of lover thier partner will be. A person that takes their time and enjoys giving pleasure with a kiss are the type that also like to take time and give pleasure during more intimate times.

Kissing, petting, making out are all different ways to prelude a more intimate relationship. When a guy rushes through the preliminary parts he is more the type of a wham bam thank you ma'am. Women like to be coaxed along and to be shown how much you think of her and not just the final climax.

Try to think of it like this.. women are like a car that has been in the cold winter weather for a week.. they need to be warmed up before you are driving off to the finish line.