Thanks for all the feedback, guys. For those curious, here's a little more background: we only dated a few months, and it was right before summer. so we were in different cities and only saw each other a few times. we sucked at communicating with each other.. we just didn't mesh well. so when it came time to come back to campus for school, we both wanted to end it. we ended on excellent terms and see each other all the time since we hang out with the same people.. we're still friends, more like acquaintences. also, the sex wasn't even that great, but sex is sex, just like weed is weed. since i'm not really that anxious to go out there and meet more guys, i figured if he was still single, why not start a casual friends with benefits thing? i trust him and know him.. it's just be convenience. but now that i think about it.. he could have easily have moved on already or not be into that idea. i don't know if i'll do it.. i'd have to be really drunk and really horny. my plan is to bring it up while drunk and if it doesn't fly, to just say "sorry, I was really wasted. i barely remember." heh.. thanks guys.