"I do it because I think I know what's best for them and because I worry and care about them but I'm affraid they don't see it that way"

I always look back to when I was that age and remember (or try to as it's been decades) how I felt about my parents telling me what I should do. Then I back off my daughter as I know it does no good. They know all...or so they think...and so did we. Proverbial thought for the day.

Glad you got a new hps Mand. Be interesting to see what their reaction is to it.