In case anyone is interested in the life style. A great book, considered as being the BDSM Bible is:
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
By Philip Miller and Molly Devon

Tells from the day to day lifestyle to how to tie a proper knot! GREAT BOOK!
Psycho4Bud Reviewed by Psycho4Bud on . Who Likes It Rough? For some reason, since I began having sex, I like it rough as hell. I want to be thrown against a wall. I want my hair pulled. I basically want it to hurt a little bit. Does anyone else feel me on this? Rating: 5