Should I come out of the closet?

[HiddenBeauty]

You could stop being gay...then you wouldn't have to 'lie' anymore.

I don't think it's possible to change your sexuality as it is programmed into you at birth really.A lot of people live many years living a lie making themselves and others around them unhappy and they then have regrets which can haunt them for the rest of their lives.

I really feel for you Mojavpa and hope that the decision you make is the best decision for not only your family but yourself too.Please let us know how things go.

[Kryzco]

Well Mojavpa I think if your family can't accept it, then thats their problem, your an adult, do what makes YOU happy, its no bodies place to tell you shit!

[poorprincess]

my family disowned me for the guy I'm going out with. And I'm straight! They just hate him because they think he's weird. They've been hoping I would conform since I was a kid and now all the sudden they dont love me anymore.

My point:I wasn't too sad when the people who couldn't accept me as I was and for who I wanted to be with, didn't want to be around me.

Dont let them force their ideals on you. It's sacregligous. If your family tells you to conform tell them their all Nazi's and you'll be glad to be free of them.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Man, it sucks that your faimly still exspects you to marry a woman and shit. I'd say tell him because if he gets angry well then screw him. You can't change who you are. You should'nt have to be ashamed that your not attracted to the opposite sex.