Quote Originally Posted by Frivolous248
You could stop being gay...then you wouldn't have to 'lie' anymore.
I don't think it's possible to change your sexuality as it is programmed into you at birth really.A lot of people live many years living a lie making themselves and others around them unhappy and they then have regrets which can haunt them for the rest of their lives.

I really feel for you Mojavpa and hope that the decision you make is the best decision for not only your family but yourself too.Please let us know how things go.