Should I come out of the closet?

[greenangel]

do it man! I know how you feel, and telling him may seem like a big deal but trust me it can be so simple, and much fun! Just make out like he already knows your gay and tell him all about the guy you've got the heat for. Then tell him you want to have a same sex marriage and have surrogate children with a lesbien couple. Shock factor will definately weigh in in your favour.

Seriously though, be true to yourself and tell him you dont like girls but not to stress about it because you've got it under control. You know what you want and its your life, so tell him to but out. Its not really any of his business but he does deserve to know all the same.

Anyway, if all else fails tell him its genetic so it must be his fault. hahaha!

If he kicks you out get a real daddy who'll love you and treat you right.

Be proud and be strong.
xo, M

[bulls4591]

when u tell him tell us what happens

[likemclever]

what are you doing in the closet? shouldnt your grow be in there?

ROFL.......sweet

[Melton420]

in society today i think it is becomming easier but i dont condone that gay shit, it says in the bible in not so many words, a vagina is for a penis, a penis for a vagina

[Aden Thomas]

I'M BISEXUAL! I've realised that for nearly 6 years now. I have had moments that dropped hints that I'm bi to me over the years like one time dis lad rubbed my leg and I got really turned on but I didn't let him carry on or go along wit it just incase he was joking and I didn't wat ppl to know I was bi. This heppened when I was about 12 and a half. I'm 19 now. It wasn't until i started wanking that I realised. 'Coz I fantasised about men at that point and realised I liked boyz as well as girls. Although I think I prefer boyz. I still haven't come out and don't have the confidence to do it. I'm really anxious and worried about the shit you get from homophobic ppl and I'm the sort of person who retaliates to anyone who winds me up but there are gonna be some ppl that are harder than me that I maybe be scared to answer back to. I find that tokin' helps me forget about my sexuality and flirting wit fit girls helps to. :rasta: Peace!

- Aden

[Az.]

im bi aswell....

as far as people knowing...no-one does....yeah its annoying but i'm happy with who I am and happy with my life.....i don't think anything needs changing so why should i change it....it isn't really anyone elses business to know either...

I guess i'm not ready to come out to everyone..maybe one day...

[StOneD.aS.FuK]

I'M BISEXUAL! I've realised that for nearly 6 years now. I have had moments that dropped hints that I'm bi to me over the years like one time dis lad rubbed my leg and I got really turned on but I didn't let him carry on or go along wit it just incase he was joking and I didn't wat ppl to know I was bi. This heppened when I was about 12 and a half. I'm 19 now. It wasn't until i started wanking that I realised. 'Coz I fantasised about men at that point and realised I liked boyz as well as girls. Although I think I prefer boyz. I still haven't come out and don't have the confidence to do it. I'm really anxious and worried about the shit you get from homophobic ppl and I'm the sort of person who retaliates to anyone who winds me up but there are gonna be some ppl that are harder than me that I maybe be scared to answer back to. I find that tokin' helps me forget about my sexuality and flirting wit fit girls helps to. :rasta: Peace!

- Aden

omg EVERYTHING you just said is just what im like/what happended to me.
:thumbsup:

but i dont plan on coming out. i know im living a lie, but id rarther live a lie than live in hell.

[zman0185]

do what you feel like doing..most importantly dont think you are obligated to tell him or anyone else for that matter.its your personall life not theirs and its really none of their bussiness unless you want it to be.if you dont want them to know then dont let them know.and if they dont like it then lifes a bitch.i mean im pretty sure everyone has something in thier personal lives that they dont want other people to know and so they dont tell everyone.you never know about people.your dad might be totally fine with it.just do what makes you happy and you will always be happy..thats my motto

[Not Enough Herb]

ok well id like to say that if you can come out then all the power to you man

i know i hate closets (dark, and what not) but thats beside the point

even if your dad doesnt except it at first hell learn to, he can't undo you being his son

good luck

later

[BizzleLuvin]

come out when you feel its best. thats all i can say. just do it when you think its right.