yes damaged egos r probly the worst thing you can have happen to u. i was always the fat kid in elementary school until i lost a lot of weight just this year. mf gf tells me im attractive, but after being told ur fat everday for 12 years its like talking to a pole.

but back to the problem. my gf is a lot like yours. she doesnt think shes attractive even tho she makes me harder then a brick wall. u gotta be persistant and patient. tell her even tho she thinks she's ugly, you find her attractive, and that you wouldnt tell her she's pretty if you didnt mean it (you dont wanna be a lying bastard, now do you?) u should kiss all down her body, while pausing every so often to say sumthing like "wow baby you have a really sexy stomach" and so on and so forth. it takes time but before u know it, clothes will be getting ripped off.

goodluck

later