I don't think it was Dutchseeds at all. They had the best customer service I've ever dealt with! The packaging is ultra-discrete. I was expecting my seeds and I still didn't catch my envelope sifting through the mail!!! Sounds like you screwed it up yourself really. Why would you send change in the mail, no return address, and have it send to an abandon house???? Use your credit card(it is discrete on your statement) and have a friend recieve it for you.