As much as I don't believe that the government should have any right in what people do in their lives as long as they don't harm anybody or anybody's property, I kinda have to agree with you on this one Torog. If the Christian Church is against gay marriage then why try and have a same-sex marriage in a Christian church? If you were black you wouldn't try and join the Ku Klux Klan, would you? That may seem completely ignorant, but I just don't believe (after much deliberation) that gay people should even want to get married in a place that forbids it. Why not just get married in a registry office or whatever you call it?