2 can play the game! If you give her what she gives you and she gets pissy about it, play the 'just wanna b friends' card. If she wants a relationship with you, this might wake her up a bit. ur 17 man, plenty of women out there and plenty of time. and btw, women who talk about sex and thier sexuality, usually know what they want and how to do it. Just ask her what the hell she wants, dont beat around the bush. Hopefully she wants you! good luck, us women are hard as hell to figure out sometimes.