toke in a bowl only. take just enough to fill your bowl halfway then pack it medium tight (like a cig feels)...just enough to allow air to pass through without too much effort (sucking). here's the most important part...light the bowl from the side only...never light in the center as it'll burn down to the bottom quicker. after getting your hit, immediately cap it tight to smother the embers asap. hold that hit as long you can, then repeat, if necessary. the trick is keeping the flame away from the center and burning the entire surface. this method not only saves a lot of bud but also allows others in the 'ring' to get their taste of fresh green too, not just the starter.