here are some other responses i got from another forum

1)You shouldn't. You thought she was interested, she wasn't, you realized it before any damage was done. I understand the urge to go and apologize, and I'm glad you are concerned about her reaction, but in a situation like this, going back would probably make matters worse.

2)If she felt bit uncomfortable with you - that does not mean she was 'shy'.
And no - don't go back! It is nice that you are so thoughful and you would like to apologize, but...
Don't you think the message from her part was a clear enough?

I have heard so many similar stories like yours.
I want to emphized to you guys - if pretty girl working in a shop, bank, waitress on a bar - is smiling, talking, a bit flirting with you - SHE IS WORKING AND BEEN FRIENDLY as she should - nothing else.
She have be friendly otherwise she would get sacked... but it does not mean that she is going to be your next gf.

3)What they said. Going back will just make her more uncomfortable.

4)Boy, get the wax out of your ears. DO NOT GO BACK. Forget about her and move on.

What part of this is so hard to understand? You've got several women, who would have a pretty good understanding of how we would feel if we were in her shoes, telling you to forget it. What you see as smiles and flirty looks could just have been her normal demeanor, the way she acts around everybody.

Again - do NOT go back. You're already sounding like a creepy stalker to me.

i doubt any of the above girls have had any thc in there system so what should i do listen to them or to my fellow weeders