pressured?

[cannabis2]

here are some other responses i got from another forum

1)You shouldn't. You thought she was interested, she wasn't, you realized it before any damage was done. I understand the urge to go and apologize, and I'm glad you are concerned about her reaction, but in a situation like this, going back would probably make matters worse.

2)If she felt bit uncomfortable with you - that does not mean she was 'shy'.
And no - don't go back! It is nice that you are so thoughful and you would like to apologize, but...
Don't you think the message from her part was a clear enough?

I have heard so many similar stories like yours.
I want to emphized to you guys - if pretty girl working in a shop, bank, waitress on a bar - is smiling, talking, a bit flirting with you - SHE IS WORKING AND BEEN FRIENDLY as she should - nothing else.
She have be friendly otherwise she would get sacked... but it does not mean that she is going to be your next gf.

3)What they said. Going back will just make her more uncomfortable.

4)Boy, get the wax out of your ears. DO NOT GO BACK. Forget about her and move on.

What part of this is so hard to understand? You've got several women, who would have a pretty good understanding of how we would feel if we were in her shoes, telling you to forget it. What you see as smiles and flirty looks could just have been her normal demeanor, the way she acts around everybody.

Again - do NOT go back. You're already sounding like a creepy stalker to me.

i doubt any of the above girls have had any thc in there system so what should i do listen to them or to my fellow weeders

[cannabis2]

and another........

If you don't go back, she'll know you were just being nice. If do DO go back, she'll know you don't know how to take no for an answer, and get creeped out by you.

You asked her out, she said no, end of story. Going back to apologize is NOT going to make her feel better. It will make her feel worse.

But then again, what the hell do I know. I'm only a woman.

[slipknotpsycho]

my god, i hope this is like a perfect 10 or something, you sure do seem to be focused on getting her to like you an awfully lot. it's obviously not working, so do what someone already suggested 'just move on'.

[cannabis2]

im not bothered if she likes me or not I just felt bad for making her feel uncomfortable/intimidated but obviously if i speak to her again it will just make matters worse

[GHoSToKeR]

If you're that fussed and you REALLY feel bad then go ahead and apologise. You seem like a pretty nice guy, just be friendly and say that you're sorry if you wierded her out a bit, then just say goodbye and walk away. Don't ask her out, don't give her your phone number, don't hit on her.. just apologise and say goodbye, and be as friendly as possible. That way hopefully she'll see that you really just feel bad, you took no for an answer butthat you just wanted to clear that up. You'll both leave happy. Personally I wouldn't go back to say sorry but that's just me, we're all different. Maybe i'm just not that nice! lol

[GHoSToKeR]

"But that" not "butt hat".