In most cases in males, the very first attraction is the visual attraction. I think that it's instinctive. Step 2 is to develop an personal and emotional connection. Sex and committment SHOULD come well after step 2 is cultivated.

When a sexual relationship is developed too quickly, it complicates step 2. So if you want to have a girl FRIEND, do not rush to have sexual activity. Easier said, than done.
DonnieDarko Reviewed by DonnieDarko on . Seriously now.... When it comes to relationships, am I the only guy my age (18) who, when looking for or thinking about a potential girlfriend, is actually looking for a girlfriend? Rating: 5